Friendship

"Real friends stay true,

Fake friends leave you and abandon you;
They are only there for the good,
They are never there for the bad.

Real friends stay
Even when you have nothing,
Real friends can pull strings
And make miracles happen

People change through time,
They have the same face
But under it is a screw face;
They will disappear without a trace.

Real friends wait,
Fake friends leave in a quickness;
To have a true friend
Means you are truly blessed"

Author: Unknown

Either you are a real friend or you are not my friend. There is no room for fake friends. I have come to learn and accept the fact that my ONLY real friends are my family. They always have my best interest at heart. However, I appreciate the people that cross my path in this journey called life. ✯ ✯ ✯

Cheating

"Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, which may or may not include sexual monogamy."- Wikipedia
"Love is a strong liking for someone. It's a strong passionate affection for another person."
"Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things."

I know cheating is "bad" and "wrong" because I have grown up to believe so and because it hurts to be cheated on.
Wrong means "not according to rule". What rule?

I don't know exactly why cheating is wrong asides that it hurts...

Maybe cheating is wrong because it hurts the other party's feelings and if you love someone you are supposed to be conscious of the other person's feelings.
But then again, people that "cheat" don't intend for the other person's feeling to be hurt...'cause they hope and assume the person doesn't find out.

When I think of someone cheating on me;
I automatically think he doesn't love me
-Well maybe he doesn't, if he hasn't told me "I love you" then he did not exactly lie...so, why is he wrong for "cheating"?
-Maybe he does and he made it known. Guys don't get emotional gratification from having sex with another party, its the sexual gratification.

In an argument some guy said; A guy will love you and still cheat on you. I did not agree then, but I have always wondered about it.
I hate to use this example, xxx loves xxx, I'm absolutely sure of this. But he definitely "cheats" or has "cheated" during the course of their relationship.

I hate when people try to advice a girl in a relationship to get out of it solely because the guy is cheating. Yh i know, its "bad". Honey, your boyfriend is cheating too, you are just not sharp enough to know, or you guys have not dated long enough for him to start having the urge to feel the warmth of another girl's vajayjay. The next guy is most likely going to cheat too.

Hmn..maybe my thoughts are absolutely disorganized or I have bn in too many dysfunctional relationships...and I'm starting to accept the things I can not change.

I am not saying cheating should be allowed for whatever reason...just my train of thoughts at the moment. Tiger Woods issue really got me thinking.

I am not talking about just guys cheating..all my arguments applies to both sides. I think people cheat, men and women alike, when the opportunity arises.

Online Dating

All Most guys that sign up on dating sites are looking for sex..true talk.

I found out that Mr. C (coz I have run out of my ...) is on a "dating" website....
I have his password ( don't judge me..lol), so I went in there to check the messages...
I was pissed..couldn't confront him..the story would have bin how did you get my password and bla bla...
So I created a profile..and sent him a really nice message ;)...
He musta bin in high spirits before realizing the number at the end of the message is mine...
smh..and he had the guts to get angry over me bn on the site...double standards??

Me Awards

The 2008 2009 Me Awards

*Saw this on someone's blog..cant remember whose*

Welcome, to the first 2008 2009 Me Awards.
Movies

Worst Movie: Heart Of Men - Stupid movie with less than mediocre sex scenes. Hairy butt is a no no. F-

Second Best: brb

Best movie: Perfect Picture. Loves it..Good Acting is always a plus. B+

Food

Worst Meal/Snack: Hmn...I cant think of one. Choosy with food..if I am eating it in the first place, I am prolly already convinced its good...my instinct is always on point

Second Best: Plantain Sauce. Delish with rice or indomie..You should try it

Best Meal/Snack: Pancakes/Waffle with honey Vanilla Ice Cream . Mouth Orgasm! the thought of it is making my mouth all wet..lol

Drink

Worst Drink: Tomato Juice. Yuckkk

Second Best: Frutopia. Loves it

Best Drink: Strawberry Daiquiri I really love it...

Girls

**A girl once begged and advised me to break up with my then boyfriend because of so many reasons..and of course because she thinks I can do way better! I did not!
They started dating not long after!
side note: She told me the sex was bad when they broke up...lmao

**My friend would have FWBs and hoped it turns into relationships. I am not against FWBs, but you have to be absolutely sure that you can handle any misplaced feelings or end it. Breach of contract always sucks for one party.

**Change for no man, dont expect a man to change for you

**You cheat on me, I cheat on you. Not to get back at you but you are just not worth being faithful to.

Take my advice, I dont use it anyways..xoxo